With your hand in mine, we watched the dusk together. You pointed to the sky where to find Hollow Galaxy and the seven dancing moons orbiting its smallest planet. How come I can’t see them I asked you. You smiled and said some of the essential things in the world they never show you. They remain a secret. And the only thing left to do is imagine them on your own.
Friday, May 27, 2011
Thursday, May 26, 2011
He’d use to take a peek and admire the unfinished house from a window of the gallery across. And so begins the story of a charming little place called Sulyap.
Kulawong puso ng saging
Mango a la mode crepe
The quaint Obando House
Relive the feeling of finding an old love letter secretly stuck in an antique wooden cabinet.
Sulyap Café and Gallery
Brgy. Del Remedio, Cocoland Compd.
San Pablo City, Laguna
Tel. Nos.: (049) 562-9740, 562-9735
San Pablo City, Laguna
Tel. Nos.: (049) 562-9740, 562-9735
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Some nights, alone, she thinks of him. And some nights, alone, he thinks of her. Some nights these thoughts, separated by miles and time zones, occur at the same objective moment, and they are connected without ever knowing it.
Monday, May 23, 2011
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
It was on a Thursday when I first met her. A quiet and simple little girl. That was my first impression of her, despite having seen her countless of times in the national TV.
“What is fiscal policy?” that was the first question she asked to which I answered “It is one of the government’s instruments for the country’s development through revenue raising, spending and borrowing.” I said something more but she stopped me in mid-sentence, saying the first statement will do.
Clearly, she knows what she talks about. And I like people who have authority and conviction on what they say. I’m really not that affectionate towards accounting, mathematics, fiscal matters and anything that has to do with numbers, but I said to myself I think I’m going to enjoy the upcoming Thursdays of the semester. Well, despite being only three of us students (me, Dext and Leila) in the class, it was a privilege to have as PA 231 professor the former Budget Secretary, Emilia Boncodin.
Well, she was supposed to teach us only about public fiscal administration, but we got more than that… because she taught us a thing or two about life.
On our first Thursday, she taught us that happiness is not all about the good life. Financial security is only one of the components of true happiness, just like having a career, building a family, or just getting a glimpse of your crush. Success will not always be the key to happiness. It is the other way around. If one really loves what he’s doing, then chances are, he will be successful in life. As Maam Emy said, “It is important that you progress in whatever you do, because along the process you develop.”
On our ninth Thursday, she taught us that honesty will always be the best policy. There will always be someone who will cheat. Just like how husbands cheat on their wives, cheating and fraud also circulates in the government. She hates cheaters that’s why she warned us “Kung aanga ka, maiisahan ka.”
On our third Thursday, she taught us the Ramon Magsaysay credo - those who have less in life should have more in law. She believed in equity, especially when it comes to taxes, emphasizing that taxes should be equitable. If one has more, he should pay more so others who have less could have a little more.
On our second Thursday, she taught us that reality bites and it hurts for those who were bitten. “Class, mortality rate in UPCAT is high,” she said. Out of the more than 70,000 who take the UPCAT every year, about 10,000 only pass. What she’s trying to say was not everybody gets the chance to get their first choice. Just live with that.
On our tenth Thursday, she taught us that everybody needs to be appreciated. Never take good things and persons for granted. A person’s relentless pursue of his meaning is somehow brought into light when there’s someone who believes that no matter how small he is, he’s still one important piece of a big puzzle.
On our fifth Thursday, she taught us that seriousness kit should include a packet of sense of humor. I will never forget the day she asked me “Frenz what’s the difference between equipment and machines?” I immediately replied “Machines are bigger.” And she started laughing. I could see in her eyes that I gave a stupid answer. But it didn’t bother me at all, for it was the first time I saw her laughing out loud. And that, somehow made me happy, even if I didn’t give the answer she was quite expecting.
On our eleventh Thursday, she taught us to hold on to things that really matters. I’m sure she will agree with me never to hold on to anger, hurt or pain because they keep one away from love, just as I agree with her not to hold on to cash, unless it’s petty cash.
On our last Thursday, I missed the class for the first time because of an official business I had to attend to. I knew I disappointed Maam Emy, and my classmates. If I could only move heaven and earth just to be with them, I would do so, but then again I’m just an ordinary boy. But I learned something new that day - I found a family in them. It’s more than enough to make me smile, knowing Maam Emy had been a mother to us.
Maam Emy was one of the Hyatt 10. She came from a small town in Bicol, where Nora Aunor was discovered. She grew up professionally in the DBM. She was single. Her untimely and instantaneous death was a big loss not only to the government but also to the academe. And yes I felt sad because I never had the chance to properly say goodbye or thank her for all the lessons she imparted to us.
A quiet and simple little girl. That was my last impression of her. And an epitome of integrity and simplicity. And integrity and simplicity always will be a beauty.
I wrote this piece more than a year ago. Na miss ko lang siguro si Maam, kasi galing ako kanina sa budget briefing sa DBM. Their newest building, Boncodin Hall was named after her.
Boncodin Hall lobby
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
Every month, RD Asia features one photo of exceptional interest depicting and celebrating the beauty of daily Asian life. Guess what? My photo of Maripipi kids got featured for this month. I feel happy. Super happy. My head is like stuck in the clouds.
But there’s a story behind every photo. The official story is in page 93. But do you wanna hear the real story?
I blackmailed someone, rode a habal-habal, braved the strong waves, arrived on the island in one piece, and since I was too afraid of jumping into the water and too envious of the kids having the time of their lives, I ended up taking snapshots of them. You see, if I can’t beat them, I’ll just shoot them using my camera. But quite honestly, I just love watching happy people.
A photo could be worth a thousand words but in my case, an ODM steel watch (the baby not included). Whoa what a loot!
Maybe to remind me that we can’t fast forward time to know if everything will be worth it. Or just maybe a sign for me to ditch the fake Lacoste watch I bought from Greenhills hehe.
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Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Anybody who wants a luscious degustacion meal 50% cheaper than Lolo Dad’s should come to Ninyo.
Duet of oysters
Japanese salmon gravlax salad with soy sesame dressing
Honey glazed grilled salmon with sweet citrus miso sauce
and US hanging tender steak with red wine sauce
Duck leg confit
Soy braised dory fillet set on wasabi croquette
and mesquite smoked duck breast
Burnt cream with butterscotch floss
Chocolate! Chocolate! Cake
Question of the night: Is love an emotion or a decision?
Ninyo Fusion Cuisine
66 E. Abada St., Loyola Heights
Tel. No.: 426-0301
(Reservation is recommended)